成功從自信開始

1. Life is not fair

Life conspires to consistently bring unexpected problems.I can either choose to accept this and work through it or I can fight， ignore and live an average life.

2. Fight your instinct

This is the tool that made our ancestors survival possible.Your brain is responsible for detecting negative signs and signs of danger so that you can flee.This is what made our ancestors survival possible. Unfortunately， we inherited this instinct and it activates everytime we try something new.

3. Make friends with your fear

There is no magic cure to fear.Fear will never dissappear， and what sets out the extraordinary from the ordinary is their ability to act despite that awful fear.

4.As long as you are nice， things usually go well

90% of people can’t reject a kind person.Emerson once said“the whole world loves a lover”.Try it. It’s so difficult for people to reject you when you’re all goody and seem so harmless.

5. Most people want to connect

The truth is that people are more open to connect than you think.There are a lot of people around you who want to connect but are just scared as you are.

6. You can’t please everyone

The thing is that no matter how sweet， funny， smart， awful or whatever kind of person you are， 90% of the world will ignore you， some of the rest will love you and the rest will hate you.So， You’re free to be weird.As the saying goes—those who matter don’t mind and those that mind don’t matter.

7. There is no universal confidence

True confidence comes from practicing and mastering an act.Social skill is just a skill like any other and all I have to do to become a pro is practice.

1.生活是不公平的

生活總會用各種方式給你帶來意想不到的問題。（剩余631字）