When Someone Asks Your Opinion, Give It說出你的想法

When someone asks for your opinion， are you quick to offer it？ Or do you opt instead for a laid-back “it’s your call，” a noncommittal “anything’s fine，” or an eager-to-please “whatever works best for you”？

當有人征求你的意見時，你會立即給出自己的意見嗎？還是會轉而選擇不在乎地說一句“聽你的”，或者不置可否地說“都可以”，抑或是急于討好地說“對你有用就行”呢？

Many of us intentionally withhold our preferences in an attempt to appear easygoing and amiable. Especially in a workplace context， we may assume that being less opinionated can help us make a good impression on our peers， employees， or managers. But through three large-scale research projects that explored a wide range of interpersonal situations with a total of more than 7，000 participants， we found that failing to weigh in can actually make you seem less likable and harm your relationships.

有很多人會故意隱瞞自己的真實喜好，來試圖顯得隨和可親。（剩余7037字）